Friday, April 27, 2012

Lifetime Lover.


So this morning  I was watching Today news, and they showed this video clip of an old married couple giving advice to there son who was getting married. And who to give better advice to a young couple, than an old couple. I died in laughter seeing as i'm in that part of my pregnancy where I seriously would like to give my husband two black eyes. 

Our almost-4-month marriage is going by very smooth. We have our own spot, which in all seriousness helps our marriage out A LOT! Helps us grow in various ways, as to managing money, what really matters, and what doesn't. Who's more lazy, and who cleans, which happens to be Travis at most times. He's truly the wife and husband in this relationship. Just goes to show that he was well taught, and that I'm a huge lazy bum, but anyways..........................Lol, our honeymoon stage has passed, but we are definitely in the marriage zone now, and I love it.

I still can't believe that as young and immature as we were, and probably still are, that we have managed to stay on the same page. That's one thing I have learned so far, is to not be so uptight, we have this whole lifetime ahead of us, and working on it to be forever. It's good to agree that we can disagree, because although our opinions and thoughts are different, we can still manage to compromise, and stay on the same page. Even if i'm wrong, Travis already knows he rather be HAPPY than to be RIGHT! Lol ;)

Just wanted to share a little bit of how amazing it has been, and how hopeful I am towards being in this kinda love with my lifetime partner for a long time. Have an amazing weekend bloggers <3 

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Oh it is Wonderful...

It's been a while since my last blog. Not that I have failed to keep you all updated, but kinda lost the motivation to blog. April has been the month of heartaches, stress, but most of all, quality family time. Couldn't have asked heavenly father to bless me with such a great family, who sticks it out through the ups and downs. That is truly what family is all about.

Even though the worst has happened with losing our favorite aunt, sister, mother, friend, daughter, we know that she is in the greatest of all places, and thank our gospel for giving us the hope and grace to know that we will all be with her again.

This aunt of mine was definitely one-of-a-kind. strong, outgoing, LOOOOOOUD, but had the biggest heart. Never did she show her weakness to the world, she was one superwomen to always show the world the happiest part of her, because in reality, she was seriously always happy, and she never failed to put a smile on anyone's face.

It wasn't until my loving aunt past away where I finally realized the importance of one soul, one personality, one BIG heart. I seriously knew what I had all along. A second mother. Although no one can take place of my real mom, it was always my 2ND mom's who made me realize how great my mother is. You see, whenever I was mad, or had a problem with my mom, I could always run to my mom's sisters, and they would make me realize why my mother has taught me the things she has taught me. Because of them, they have helped me become a better mother personally. I can't thank my aunts enough for all they have done for me and my sisters. For making us have a stronger bond, all because they have one too. For showing us the meaning of, "it takes a village to raise a child," and I stick by that firmly, because it seriously does! You have your aunts, uncles, church members, school teachers, friends, literally EVERYONE to help you become the person you are. You have plenty of MOM's to go around, or as I like to call them, SUPERWOMAN's. They are the ones who you can always count on when your down and out, when your in need of help, or when you need a place to eat, sleep, bathe, and potty. I've seen my mom do it with my cousins, I've seen my aunts do it with me and there kids friends, and that shows me that no matter how rich or poor one is, a soul being saved and cared for is always the greater blessing.  So I want to thank all my aunt's for that, and also my church leaders, school teachers, etc. just for showing me what a superwoman does all comes from the heart. 

Now,(nacho libre voice) time to get to the needy-greedy. A great woman has past, but a new soul carries her name from here on out. Baba's oldest son has his first born named after his mom. So I know for sure, she's going to come out just like her name-sake (OOOOOHHHHH NOOOOO!! Lol) As for the rest of the family, Kaloni leka is having another Langi boy, and one of the oldest grandson's of the Lutui family has finally tied the knot, congrats to Andy and Kalisi Lutui, and welcome to the LOOT FAM! Lol. One more amazing wedding coming up, Lita and Tane Laskau which is next Saturday, and they will be sealed for all time and eternity. That is going to be another great blessing that I am looking forward to being there...Outside of course, gotta wait a year, lol. It has been a crazy fun-filled family time with my family, and I look forward to much more. Family forever, family always. xoxo.

p.s.-im 16 weeks, and loving the pregnancy. the 2nd trimester is starting off as smooth sailing, and I think it's going to take me another couple of weeks until you realize I am pregnant. I was an overgrown child when I was young, so I have a lot of extra baggage, FML. Lol, anyway, cheers <3