We all will experience heart breaks, and the feeling of losing our first love, but that doesn't stop us from finding a better one. TRUST ME, I have been through the worst in love, and now I am enjoying the sweetest of it.
"LOVE IS PATIENT."
We choose what type of partner we want to seek in life. We choose from the personality to the looks. Either a rich person, or a person with swag, or even, the same sex. What ever it may be, we should not forget that those people, are looking for the same qualities.
Sometimes, we make quick decisions. We see everyone is falling in love, and we are still standing with the "im Single" sign. We get insecure, and start feeling that we might not be as pretty, or as amazing as our friends, but DON'T LET GET THE BEST OF YOU. Love is a test. Love will push you closer to who you are looking for. Love will show you how to love yourself, before you are able to love someone else.
I now realize how important it is to have standards. let me tell you, in the game of LOVE, standards are the key for you to win the game. But what if we lowered our standards? what if we fell short, and gave into worldly pleasure? Every choice comes with it's consequences. Women are known to always fall in love with the first man they have given there virginity to. Why? Because we are so caring, and humans are the only things on this planet that are able to have intimacy face to face. Animals and other creepy things aren't, that's why most UN-human-like things don't feel what only humans can feel. Another amazing unique thing that only happens in human-nature, aren't we just so lucky? Yeah, if we are able to handle it in the right way.
To make love is beautiful thing. It increases and unleashes feelings of all sorts. Makes you feel like you two are meant for each other in that moment in time. But just like a ball getting toss out the window, so can love. And that is why our parents, our society, our teachers, old people, people who have been hurt by love tell us to wait until Marriage. Seems like the hardest thing to do, right? I know tell me about it. But, taking the time to know who you want, and really get to connect with someone, is better than getting 1.56 seconds of pleasure. Cinderella didn't have to give up her virginity to find her true love, and neither should you. Go lose a shoe! hahaha. There's other ways to find who you want to be with, and you'll know, because you will feel the exact same, it is just dwelling in two different bodies.
I should be the last person to tell you all of this. But I'm just as heart broken as others. I FEEL YOUR PAIN, really though. I just want people to know that just because Rihanna went from a good girl gone bad, doesn't mean you have to. Sometimes the road of being desperate, will always end up to be the road of regret. The feeling of being heart-broken will never cure, unless you are able to rebuild yourself, and get your standards back together. Just because you fell short once, doesn't mean you always have to fall short. like Kelly says, "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger."
Love is patient, and time heals all. Don't let one bad choice, become a bad habit. When emotions are hurt, all you want to do is be heart broken forever. But let's not forget that things happen for a reason, and because we are tested daily. Just because we failed once, doesn't mean we fail forever. There is always room for improvement. It can make you or brake you.
So when everyone else is waking up in love, and your sitting there still holding your single sign. Hold it with pride, and never settle for any less. You might just see someone else holding there with pride also. It's worth the wait, I promise ;)
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